Each of us face unique battles. Even though Christ has given us our eternal victory, we still face battles with our own sin, temptations brought on by the world, and with the devil himself. It’s true that some of these battles are faced by all of us, but there also seem to be unique temptations and struggles that we face as men and women. The Bible is filled with specific guidance and direction, warnings and cautions, that apply to husbands, and wives, young women and older women, males and females alike.
Some might describe women as the “weaker” sex, but when it comes to using words, could it be that women are “better” as using them? As we look at Genesis ch 3, consider how Eve’s words were used and misused. Might we also consider that women might be engaged in a unique battle in how they use their words to both help and hurt? I know that I might be generalizing here, and that can be dangerous, but… Do women use words to hurt others more often than men? It’s not that I’m trying to compare for “bragging rights” or to falsely accuse women in this area, but I commonly hear these things: ”Girls are hurtful to one another.” ”Guys just seem to fight, and get it over with, but women talk about one another and hurt one another in different ways.” In troubled marriages you might often hear how “my husband ignores me,” and he says, “my wife always nags.”
This Sunday, with great care and respect, and some caution, I will be talking about the great challenge that women have in using words to both help and to hurt. I will seek to make a Biblical case for this being a unique temptation that all women must face. We all have women in our lives, mom’s, sisters, friends, we might have a wife or a girlfriend. Even if you are not a woman, feel free to comment. If you are a woman, give me some direction here, and honestly tell me more about what I believe is every woman’s battle.
Jake